Recently I learnt a few thing that i thought of sharing. These are something really painful and they have changed me forever. Rather than typing some shite story and lengthy passages, that runs into books, let me summerise in a few plain simple words.
1. When you are going through tough times, you then know who your real friends are. People will only inquire about it, but do they really care? The only ones who are concerned will try and help you out of it, not by just talking some shite stuff (all those useless philosophical stuff found all over the internet), but being with you all the time. Real friends will be with you and tolerate you even, if you say and do something bad, for they know that you really did not mean any of those stuff. I HAVE YET TO FIND ANY.
2. Never trust anyone in your life more than yourself. However close you feel they are to you, never do that. You never know, when they break that trust. When the trust is broken, everything else is on the loose. Things are never the same even if you attempt to repair it. Recently, this has happened to me. Trusted some who I thought were my dearest and closest. At the end, I lost someone whom I shall never forget in this life. Today, as I think abut it, I feel foolish for what I did.
3. Never ever express anything to anyone. When you do so, you never know the consequences. I once did it, and today, I realised, I should have shut my gob then. Things would have not got messed up so badly as it is today. However strong these expressions are, keep them yourself, even if it kills you. Its better that way than live with the aftermath that occurs.
4. Never ever do something playful like teasing, a prank etc to some people, however close the relations might be. You never know when it can tick them off. I once did it and its been a while since I heard anything from them.
5. Never expect anything in this bleeding life. The minute you set expectations and they do not happen the way its suppose to happen, it can mess up your life. How often has this happened to me? Sometimes I expect a lot of thing for a few people and situations. When these do not happen, they can be disastrous.
These are some of the things that I can remember off the top of my head. If there are more, will add them to the list.
These things have changes me and the way I think and live. People did comment that I've changed a lot, in the recent . But do they really know why I have changed or what caused me to change. They find you have changed because, you have stopped living the way they want you to live. Sometimes you ought to live for yourselves however hard it might be. Even if it means being lonely, so be it. At the end of the day, you need to live for yourselves and not for others. We were not born to be slaves and serve others.
Vinay
01-May-2011
Time : 2150 IST
1. When you are going through tough times, you then know who your real friends are. People will only inquire about it, but do they really care? The only ones who are concerned will try and help you out of it, not by just talking some shite stuff (all those useless philosophical stuff found all over the internet), but being with you all the time. Real friends will be with you and tolerate you even, if you say and do something bad, for they know that you really did not mean any of those stuff. I HAVE YET TO FIND ANY.
2. Never trust anyone in your life more than yourself. However close you feel they are to you, never do that. You never know, when they break that trust. When the trust is broken, everything else is on the loose. Things are never the same even if you attempt to repair it. Recently, this has happened to me. Trusted some who I thought were my dearest and closest. At the end, I lost someone whom I shall never forget in this life. Today, as I think abut it, I feel foolish for what I did.
3. Never ever express anything to anyone. When you do so, you never know the consequences. I once did it, and today, I realised, I should have shut my gob then. Things would have not got messed up so badly as it is today. However strong these expressions are, keep them yourself, even if it kills you. Its better that way than live with the aftermath that occurs.
4. Never ever do something playful like teasing, a prank etc to some people, however close the relations might be. You never know when it can tick them off. I once did it and its been a while since I heard anything from them.
5. Never expect anything in this bleeding life. The minute you set expectations and they do not happen the way its suppose to happen, it can mess up your life. How often has this happened to me? Sometimes I expect a lot of thing for a few people and situations. When these do not happen, they can be disastrous.
These are some of the things that I can remember off the top of my head. If there are more, will add them to the list.
These things have changes me and the way I think and live. People did comment that I've changed a lot, in the recent . But do they really know why I have changed or what caused me to change. They find you have changed because, you have stopped living the way they want you to live. Sometimes you ought to live for yourselves however hard it might be. Even if it means being lonely, so be it. At the end of the day, you need to live for yourselves and not for others. We were not born to be slaves and serve others.
Vinay
01-May-2011
Time : 2150 IST
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